Written by admin on October 23rd, 2008
Pretending To Be Successful Creates Debt
On one level or another, everybody wants to make something of their life. They want to take their efforts and translate them into awesome results, making the most of what they do and putting it towards success that is tangible. Achieving a solid education, obtaining a respectable job, establishing a commendable career, and owning a quality home with a nice lifestyle.
However, this sort of thing all too easily gets distorted. Up until recently, people who wanted to have the best could get it without having earned it first. Thanks to credit, it’s easy to mistake what you can get with what you can afford. Because the presence of money is eliminated, you’ve given a strong sense of financial freedom. However, this is nothing of the truth. Everything you buy now has to be paid off at some point or another, and in the case of credit cards or loans, to a certain degree over a period of time.
However, the economy could only maintain itself on debt for so long. Eventually, people spend beyond their means, and while you can maintain yourself by paying monthly fees that allow you to make ends meet, you never pay off your debts due to high interest rates and as a result, you’re never allowed to save money. This gives you no financial net to fall into in tough times. When prices go up, you spend even more, and eventually it gets to the breaking point where you have nothing left to give financially and everything around you is demanding more money than what you can put up.
This is a very tricky situation. Experienced by a lot of Americans, it can be like walking on a tightrope. If you don’t maintain a very careful balance and try to walk a thin line with your budget, you can potentially devastate your livelihood and lose a lot. However, the tightrope can be avoided all together if you realize a few basic principles when it comes to saving money.
First and foremost, don’t pretend to be rich. Don’t make it out like you’re successful if you’re really not. If you don’t have any money and you’re surrounded by materials that cost too much to afford, you’re living beyond your means. If at any point your expenses are more than what you make, then you need to seriously reconsider what your prerogatives are and develop an attitude that accepts who you are, the debt you’ve accumulated, and the money problems you’re experiencing.
The first step is honesty, and the next step is acceptance. From there, you have to cut back significantly.
Even if you bought your car to tell the world that you can afford nice things, don’t bother to pay for it until you truly can call it your own. The same applies for an oversized home or anything else that robs you of your well-earned future. It’s a matter of respecting yourself based on your own terms rather than what the world or the media tells you. If you can’t truly afford something and you don’t have any money saved up, then it’s best to forgo it. This is how you prevent debt from accruing, and the most significant way you can start to tackle your debt and establish a lifestyle that you can truly call your own.
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1 Comment at "Pretending To Be Successful Creates Debt"
Hi
A very interesting post. It is very interesting how much the advertising industry are implicated in all of this, since they create the very appealing images of families that have it all. This is very nice if you can afford it but if not you are much better off living a more relaxed life within your means.
I should know because I’ve tried all 3 ways (having a good job and a good lifestyle, losing my job and borrowing to keep up appearances, and getting a job that pays less and living within my budget).
Neil
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